Codependent Chronicles

Understanding codependency to find healing

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    Silence on the Battlefield

    I think the enemy knows what our calling is, far before we do and he does everything he can to stop or thwart that from coming to fruition. He certainly knows the power and authority available to us through Christ. The ranks of the enemy desperately want to stop us from using the tools and authority that God has given us.  For many of us, the enemy starts in on us from a very early age. Please know that if you encountered tragedy and trauma from an early age, then there is a strong call on your life and once you step fully into your identity in Christ, you will…

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    What is Codependency?

    Codependency is usually thought of as one person clinging to another, but it is actually a behavioral condition. In a relationship, one person enables another person’s addiction, poor mental health, immaturity, irresponsibility, or under-achievement. Among the core characteristics of codependency is an excessive reliance on other people for approval and a sense of identity. Codependents need to feel needed, find their identity from someone else, and rely on their relationships to give them a sense of purpose. People with codependency unconsciously seek out love, validation, and approval from everyone around them. The Cliff Notes for, codependency is defined as excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, or in simpler terms, one who is extremely needy…